In a recent interview with Entertainment Express, radio personality
Toolz talked about the time a guy she liked told her he wasn't
interested in pursuing a relationship with her. What she said below...
"There was this guy I
met during my final year at the University. He had just moved from
Houston and didn't know a lot of people in London and after a few random
conversation about course work, he asked me out. Our first date was
amazing and after about a month of seeing each other a few times a week,
I was almost certain he was "the one". After dancing around the issue
for a week or two, I was finally brave enough to bring up the "where are
we" issue. His exact words were "I really like you Tolu, but I'm not
looking for a relationship right now". I had to take a moment to
mentally pick up the fragments of my broken heart, then I smiled at him
and said "No worries, it's okay"
What is the biggest lesson you have learnt from heartbreaks?
"I
did learn a valuable lesson from this. One of the worst things
you can do in life is to lie to yourself and potentially rob yourself of
what you truly deserve. Whether it be a relationship, a job, whatever
situation it is, do your best to be honest with yourself. If a situation
isn't giving you what you need, don't fool yourself. Have enough self
respect to say " I am not getting what I want from this situation and I
honestly won't be able to settle" she said
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