Ladies, please stop putting money ahead of everything. Here's the story as shared by Ada Okeke:
My cousin (male) came home last Christmas looking for a wife, I told him about my girlfriend and we agreed to invite her over so that he can see her. At last he liked her, collected her phone number from me.
My girlfriend told me she is not interested, that she is not ready for marriage yet...
I tried all my best to convince her but to no avail, I let go! Later he found another lady, paid her bride price last February, they are planning for their traditional marriage soon.
My cousin (male) came home last Christmas looking for a wife, I told him about my girlfriend and we agreed to invite her over so that he can see her. At last he liked her, collected her phone number from me.
But here is the deal between me and him, he made it clear to me never to
disclose what he does for a living to her now, but rather I should tell
her he is a security man living in Mushin. (note: he is a rich
business man but he is afraid to disclose his identity now, because
according to him, he is looking for a lady that will love him for whom
he is and not for what he is).
They met, he told her the same thing. After everything she came to me to
know whether it's true, I told her yes but that she should give him a
chance, and try to know him very well.
My girlfriend told me she is not interested, that she is not ready for marriage yet...
I tried all my best to convince her but to no avail, I let go! Later he found another lady, paid her bride price last February, they are planning for their traditional marriage soon.
Now, I don't know how my girlfriend ran into him and discovered he is a
rich business guy. She called me and gave me the insult of my life. Her
reason is that I shouldn't have lied to her in the first place, knowing
fully well we are friends... that a friend is not supposed to lie to a
friend. Her sisters called me and told me the same thing. But when I
tried to explain things, they hung the phone on me.
I am planning to go over to their place today to explain things to her sisters and apologise too, but my own sisters are still with the opinion that I did nothing wrong....
I am planning to go over to their place today to explain things to her sisters and apologise too, but my own sisters are still with the opinion that I did nothing wrong....
What do you think? Did I do the right or the wrong thing?
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